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		<title>Team Support and limited Offer</title>
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<p>An invitation for a small team preferably 8-12 team members<br />
Can be non-profit or for-profit group.<br />
I recently completed my Certified Professional Enneagram Teacher certification.<br />
I am also a certified Motivational Maps practitioner for individuals and teams.<br />
I am adding Enneagram for Teams in a new certification program.<br />
I require a case study with a team to complete this process with.<br />
My time will be at no cost to you. What I do require is each individual complete an on-line assessment and you would cover that cost of 50. USD per person.<br />
It is possible to complete with individual calls though the time required would be more time intensive.<br />
The time frame for my completion is between <strong>May 3 and 20</strong>.<br />
The purpose and outcome: individual and group Enneagram assessments.<br />
Debrief sessions with individuals and the team.<br />
Understanding your individual strategies for greater self-awareness and development.<br />
Noticing how you might think you show up in the world and how that may be different from how others perceive you.<br />
Understand your specific team dynamics in a new way, how can you build more trust and understanding. Deal with thorny obstacles and communication issues, and receive practical and implemental tools. Unlock fresh team success and positive leadership impact for everyone.<br />
Questions? Message or Email me at Robyn McTague enneagramteacher@shaw.ca or text/WhatsApp 604-644-0017<br />
What is the Enneagram?<br />
“At first glance, the Enneagram seems to be just another system for pigeon-holing people. But look twice and you see it’s describing something central: your core strategy for making sense of reality, your basic life stance. As you investigate the system and compare its insights with your own experience, you may be amazed at its depth and accuracy.<br />
When people initially identify their Enneagram style, they often feel stunned that the core of their psyche has been so vividly exposed.<br />
 Sometimes in life there are moments of creative breakthrough – what are called “Ah Ha!” experiences – when you suddenly see the familiar in a new way.<br />
Like motel room lighting, the system seems to first highlight our less attractive features.<br />
The Enneagram is uncomfortably specific about stories we tell ourselves, masks we wear for others, excuses we have for not getting what we want.<br />
It shows us how we trap ourselves with habitual responses, overlook our blind spots and actively defend our illusions and vanities.<br />
We have expectations, we make assumptions; we’re certain of the world that we have in our head. But, sometimes we get things all wrong.“<br />
– Tom Condon<br />
The Enneagram offers a path and a map to move beyond those auto-responses to expressing our gifting and bringing kindness, compassion and engagement within ourselves and with others in our lives.</p>
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	<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">The difference between successful people and really successful people is that really successful people say no to almost everything. --Warren Buffett</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">If you're looking for a good reason to say "no" more often, here it is: self-care. By this, we mean no one can keep your diverse needs in balance each day if you don't. People can attempt to support you, and they don't receive the constant messages your body and mind reveal about your needs. Recognizing those messages and acting on them are the keys to maintaining a healthy lifestyle.</span></p>
<h3><b>Saying No and Preserving Good Relationships</b></h3>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Unless you work alone and prefer to be alone, life is about building relationships. Some people derive much of their identity from the intimate relationships they form. Other adults are more solitary. They're content with spending less time around friends and loved ones. If you say no, remember you are making the best decision at that moment.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Saying no doesn't mean you don't love someone or care about their well-being. You can choose to put another person's needs above your own, and it should not be required as a condition of your relationship.</span></p>
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<h3><b>Setting Boundaries</b></h3>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">The difference between being a serial people pleaser and a balanced person is setting appropriate boundaries. By engaging in this form of self-care, you can be more helpful to others. It's hard to fully give of yourself when you're neglecting your own needs.</span></p>
<h3><b>Caring For Others</b></h3>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Here is an example. A person leaves work to become a full-time caregiver for a partner with a serious illness. It's easy to set daily goals and try to meet a partner's needs, but a health condition comes with ups and downs. Being a nurse without breaks for recreation, sleep, nutrition, solitude, and socialization will cause burnout. Set limits for how much you can meet another person's needs and arrange support to relieve you when needed. If you aren't in a position to take on a role, such as meeting someone's needs, it's important to say no. Sometimes, you can do more damage by failing to meet obligations because they were unrealistic.</span></p>
<h3><b>Fighting Our Own Impulses</b></h3>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">It's easy to read why it’s important to attend more to your own needs. Honestly, it's harder to practice this concept to the point where you stop being a people pleaser. Learn to <a href="https://www.alifeofchoice.ca/2019/04/01/motivation-and-purpose-how-to-utilize-your-values-to-improve-your-motivation/">recognize the impulse to meet the needs</a> of others. When someone requests your time or another action, you can stop to consider it and then respond with a "no" answer or a timeline for when you can do it.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Let's say your biggest client asks you to meet after work, but you already have plans with your spouse. Because your family depends on income, your spouse will understand if you reschedule the plans. However, you can ask the client to wait a day or two to meet. Everyone can appreciate when you're honest about new commitments, or they can find other relationships. People worth your time will honor your boundaries, compared to the alternative, which are you feeling more stressed out because you made too many promises and neglected your needs.</span></p>
<h3><b>Anticipating Emotional Responses</b></h3>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Expect a learning curve as you start saying "no" to people. This new pattern might affect your existing relationships. When you can't meet someone's request as you did in the past, he or she may have an emotional reaction, such as anger, frustration, disappointment, or criticism. In the case of handling clients, business partners, suppliers, and employees, your efforts to adjust boundaries may not succeed. If you can't restructure relationships, it may be time to move on to other opportunities. For more details on building a relationship-based business, please contact us.</span></p>
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		<title>How to Build Self- Confidence</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 31 Jan 2023 11:39:10 +0000</pubDate>
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	<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Self-confidence is a characteristic some people seem to carry around in higher amounts than the general population. When achieved, life feels more effortless.</span></p>
<h3><b>Definition of Self-Confidence</b></h3>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">One way to define self-confidence is by trusting the self and recognizing individual abilities. By contrast, not having self-confidence means often doubting and feeling powerless. There are times when both types of beliefs can affect how to handle life's challenges.</span></p>
<h3><b>Why Would Self-Confidence Be Good or Bad?</b></h3>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Sometimes, having too much <a href="https://www.alifeofchoice.ca/2019/04/01/motivation-and-purpose-how-to-utilize-your-values-to-improve-your-motivation/">self-confidence makes us bold,</a> and we get ourselves into trouble. Imagine being dared by a friend to run across the road between moving cars, which is also called the game of chicken. Such recklessness could quickly get anyone killed. On the other hand, not having self-confidence can hold us back from doing many things.  </span></p>
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<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">It’s vital to stay on top of mental health, trust oneself, and actively work on self-esteem. Without this essential habit, missing out on life's most fulfilling experiences is easy, such as meeting new people and experiencing different activities.</span></p>
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<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">In a negative mindset, pain, disappointment, failure, and other nasty things happen. With the wrong mindset, bad experiences might come. Furthermore, negative thinking stops people from applying for better jobs, ending bad relationships, and seeking other opportunities to help them grow and feel happier. They do not feel good enough or worthy enough to succeed.</span></p>
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<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Valuing and accepting one's achievements does not limit the possibility to grow in the future. Let us practice a very well-known mantra and be thankful for what we already have while working towards what we want. Desire to succeed is nothing to be ashamed of, and we should always strive to kaizen our lives!</span></p>
<h3><b>Tips for Building Self-Confidence</b></h3>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">We live in a unique time when most adults and children are staying home undefinedly and have had to abandon what was expected. Many have temporarily shifted to work-at-home and sheltering in place to minimize exposure to the Coronavirus.</span></p>
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<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Soon, we will be returning to work and redefining routines, and we also carry with us the changes social isolation provoked. We can improve our mindset and self-confidence by giving enough attention to self-care. Self-actualization starts with creating new patterns for success. Here are some things to do to boost confidence immediately:</span></p>
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<li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="1"><span style="font-weight: 400;">Keep your home and work areas clean, organized, and comfortable.</span></li>
<li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="1"><span style="font-weight: 400;">Make a new morning routine that you can follow whether you will be at home or going to work. This routine works on vacation days as well. Following a routine gives you a sense of control over your attitude, feelings, and environment.</span></li>
<li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="1"><span style="font-weight: 400;">Get yourself showered and dressed every day. It can be self-defeating to sit around in your pajamas all day.</span></li>
<li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="1"><span style="font-weight: 400;"> Improve your diet. This may require joining an app or nutrition program or talking with your doctor. You need the right amount of vitamins, protein, carbohydrates, and water to be healthy and to maintain enough energy to complete your daily activities.</span></li>
<li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="1"><span style="font-weight: 400;">Make time for social support and recreation.</span></li>
<li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="1"><span style="font-weight: 400;">Surround yourself with positive people. If you are working in an unsatisfactory job or around negative people, dare to make a change.</span></li>
<li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="1"><span style="font-weight: 400;">Write down goals. You will only feel successful when you're devoting your daily efforts (mental, physical, emotional, and spiritual) to goals that are personally meaningful.</span></li>
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<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">There is more to life than getting through the day. Increase self-confidence by listening to one's needs and feeling empowered by daily accomplishments. These are the keys to balancing mental health with the needs of others!</span></p>
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	<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">It's no surprise that anxiety and depression are on the rise. Now more than ever, life isn't easy, and many of us are dealing with loss, discouragement, and stress. We all </span><span style="font-weight: 400;">face <a href="https://www.alifeofchoice.ca/2019/04/01/motivation-and-purpose-how-to-utilize-your-values-to-improve-your-motivation/">disappointment and failure</a> at some point because we are human. We may respond to these obstacles with negative feelings of self-criticism or self-blame, which doesn't help. The solution is </span><a href="https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/psychiatry-the-people/201912/5-researched-ways-self-compassion-training-is-transformative"><span style="font-weight: 400;">self-compassion.</span></a><span style="font-weight: 400;"> We can learn to treat ourselves with the same emotional support and loving kindness that we would offer to others.</span></p>
<h3><b>What is self-compassion?</b></h3>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Self-compassion embodies concepts from Hindu, Buddhist, and other traditions. It means treating yourself with the same type of kindness and understanding you would show to someone you cared about. Most of us tend to be very hard on ourselves. However, self-compassion is not about telling ourselves that we are better than other people. Rather it is about accepting ourselves as fallible human beings, deserving of sympathy.</span></p>
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<h3><b>What are the basic components of self-compassion?</b></h3>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">When we make mistakes or fail despite our best efforts, we may be cold and judgmental toward ourselves. The key to self-compassion is simply being kind to yourself.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">The constant stream of social media often makes us feel inadequate. Everywhere we look, there are pictures and comments about other people's promotions, perfect homes, amazing children, and even their superb meals. In contrast, we look at our </span><span style="font-weight: 400;">less-than-satisfying jobs, messy homes, imperfect children, and frozen pizza for dinner and all we see is a failure. However, the reality is that imperfection is the human experience. Once you accept and forgive your own flaws, it is easier to connect on a deeper level with others.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Another essential component is mindfulness, which means focusing on the present moment and accepting your thoughts, feelings, and sensations. If you are feeling bad about something, you may have a tendency to ignore your feelings or try to control them through business or problem-solving. While you are occupied with suppressing your feelings or making to-do lists, you are not giving yourself compassion.</span></p>
<h3><b>Why do we have trouble practicing self-compassion?</b></h3>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Society values compassion for other people. We are taught to be kind and supportive towards friends, family members, and others in need. When it comes to ourselves, compassion may be sadly lacking. Most of us have an inner voice that is judgmental or self-critical.</span></p>
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<li><span style="font-weight: 400;"> Childhood. This voice may have come from parents or other authority figures. Most parents have good intentions and think that criticizing and pushing a child harder helps them succeed, but instead, it can be damaging.</span></li>
<li><span style="font-weight: 400;"> Society. From school right through careers and adulthood, society is judgmental and critical. Children learn that their self-worth is based on their achievements. Acceptance by peers is more about fitting in than about being yourself.</span></li>
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<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">People believe that they must be self-critical in order to be motivated and succeed in life. However, being hard on yourself drains your mental and emotional energy. Studies show that self-criticism is related to depression. The only motivation is to undervalue yourself and avoid failure whenever possible.</span></p>
<h3><b>Benefits of self-compassion</b></h3>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">There are many </span><a href="https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/psychiatry-the-people/201912/5-researched-ways-self-compassion-training-is-transformative"><span style="font-weight: 400;">benefits to self-compassion</span></a><span style="font-weight: 400;">, such as:</span></p>
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<li><span style="font-weight: 400;"> More likely to take responsibility for their actions, rather than place the blame on others.</span></li>
<li><span style="font-weight: 400;"> More likely to study more after a disappointing result.</span></li>
<li><span style="font-weight: 400;"> more connected to others. Always comparing yourself unfavorably with other people actually disconnects you from others.</span></li>
<li><span style="font-weight: 400;"> more resilient in times of adversity.</span></li>
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<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Fundamentally, self-esteem and self-compassion both involve positive emotions. But self-esteem is based on a positive judgment about yourself or your performance.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Self-compassion is not about judgment or evaluation. It allows us to treat ourselves with compassion, even when we fail.</span></p>
<h3><b>How can you nurture self-compassion?</b></h3>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Treat yourself with the same sympathy you would use for another person, such as a child. Allow yourself to be imperfect. </span><a href="https://www.ementalhealth.ca/"><span style="font-weight: 400;">Be mindful of your inner critical voice</span></a><span style="font-weight: 400;">. If you need help, consult a coach who is experienced in self-compassion. Be kind to yourself. You're worth it. For more information, </span><a href="https://calendly.com/robynmct"><span style="font-weight: 400;">contact us</span></a><span style="font-weight: 400;">.</span></p>
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	<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Productivity is a highly personal achievement. Each person has their talents, pace, and methods for achieving their best productivity. Quite frankly, most of us haven't discovered the methods that help us reach truly optimal productivity. How do you increase productivity at work?</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Would you benefit more from meditation in the morning or from a bran muffin? Do you need to walk around thinking during the day? Or would you do better preserving your focus in a closed office?</span></p>
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<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Each person is unique in how they will optimize their productivity, but we can all share a few tips on accelerating. Today, we're here to talk about eight helpful ways to increase your productivity and test the waters to find those optimal methods for your workflow.</span></p>
<h3><strong>1) Productivity in Small Bites</strong></h3>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Start measuring your progress in smaller units. Instead of a project is "done" and "not done", break it down into individual tasks. If you're having trouble getting started on a job, break it down further. Tackle your productivity a micro-task at a time and soon you'll be stacking dozens of efficient micro-tasks into tangible achievement.</span></p>
<h3><strong>2) Hold Yourself Accountable</strong></h3>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Try to avoid blaming other things, computers, or people for setbacks - even if they played a part. Start by taking responsibility for your performance and the final results of your work, no matter what other influences may have been involved. When you hold yourself accountable, you can start building a game plan to fix all setbacks based on the actions you individually can take.</span></p>
<h3><strong>3) Forgive Yourself for Imperfect Productivity</strong></h3>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">At the same time, don't be too harsh with yourself. Use a responsibility to inspire creativity, but forgive yourself for imperfections. No one reaches maximum productivity all the time. For most people, the optimal productivity zone is spun up into and one wind down out of. So if you're groggy in the morning, distracted in the afternoon, or even struggle during your peak hours, allow yourself to be human.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Getting too focused and worried about your productivity does the opposite of helping because it draws your attention away from the tasks at hand.</span></p>
<h3><strong>4) Focus Into Monotasking</strong></h3>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">There was a two-decade push toward multitasking but the tides have turned. It has been revealed that while multi-tasking is an important skill, it can also prevent you from spinning up to optimal productivity. So try mono-tasking instead. Focus on one in-depth task or project and turn off all other alert media that might interrupt you. Instead of doing three things lightly, do one thing well.</span></p>
<h3><strong>5) Stand Up to Work</strong></h3>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Standing desks are a trend for a reason. Standing increases blood flow, which is good for your brain, and makes you feel more alert. You may notice that you think better when pacing or that you stand when brainstorming. We suggest standing for 30 minutes to 4 hours per day during your work. Install an adjustable standing desk or just stack your keyboard onto a small box and work while standing during the day.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Just see if this is one of the special tricks that transform your productivity when you change your working style.</span></p>
<h3>6) Sneak Exercise Like Bonus Points</h3>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Another great blood flow hack is sneaky exercise. Deskercising is an exec success secret that has been trendy over the last few decades. Essentially, figure out ways to do body-weight and lightly weighted exercises while sitting or standing at your desk. Slip exercises into your coffee break routine or work up a sweat and grab a shower over lunch.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">By getting your blood pumping, you can increase your brain's function and stave off those afternoon nap-time urges.</span></p>
<h3><strong>7) Anti-Procrastinate</strong></h3>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Challenge yourself to do the opposite of procrastinating - take care of small tasks as soon as they are presented. This is sometimes called the "two-minute rule". If a task will take two minutes or less to complete, do it immediately before leaving the room or moving on to something else. This simple policy will help you keep your life cleaner, better organized, and with an unbelievably reduced number of items on your universal to-do list.</span></p>
<h3><strong>8) Break Up Old Routines</strong></h3>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Last but not least, break up your routine. Do something different than usual every day - find something new to change up. Cook breakfast foods for supper—open doors only with your off-hand. Rearrange how you use task windows on your desktop.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Force your <a href="https://www.alifeofchoice.ca/2023/01/27/the-many-benefits-of-deep-breathing/">brain to think</a> about the world with new patterns and you will also find yourself thinking more creatively in all aspects of life. Not to mention identifying and blasting away any inefficiencies in your daily way of doing things.</span></p>
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	<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Deep breathing is something we often take for granted. Unless we're running a marathon or dealing with a nasty head cold, mostly our inhalations and exhalations go unnoticed.</span></p>
<h3><b>Are there benefits of deep breathing?</b></h3>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">As it turns out, there are some very good reasons to become more mindful of our breathing process. In large part, these reasons have to do with the many benefits of <a href="https://www.linkedin.com/pulse/many-benefits-deep-breathing-robyn-mctague/?lipi=urn%3Ali%3Apage%3Ad_flagship3_profile_view_base_post_details%3BeCqXbkQuRF%2BerbC%2FIIVjhw%3D%3D">deep breathing.</a></span></p>
<h3><b>Deep Breathing Reduces Stress</b></h3>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">The bottom line is that slow, relaxed, and mindful deep breathing can reduce physical and mental stress. And a reduction in unnecessary stress and tension <a href="https://www.alifeofchoice.ca/2018/07/10/create-more-energy-and-focus-in-your-day/">supports the human body-mind</a> in all kinds of ways. In short, it's a really good thing!</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">So, how exactly does deep breathing benefit us? Let's take a look first at the physical benefits of deep breathing.</span></p>
<h3><b>The Physical Benefits of Deep Breathing</b></h3>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Deep breathing promotes a lowering of blood pressure and a slowing of the heartbeat—both of which are associated with the relaxation response of the parasympathetic nervous system. This is the most healing and nourishing way for the body to function, under normal circumstances.</span></p>
<h3><img loading="lazy" class="alignnone wp-image-4467 size-full" src="https://www.alifeofchoice.ca/wp-content/uploads/2023/01/1602902511864.jpg" alt="The Many Benefits of Deep Breathing" width="900" height="600" srcset="https://www.alifeofchoice.ca/wp-content/uploads/2023/01/1602902511864.jpg 900w, https://www.alifeofchoice.ca/wp-content/uploads/2023/01/1602902511864-300x200.jpg 300w, https://www.alifeofchoice.ca/wp-content/uploads/2023/01/1602902511864-768x512.jpg 768w" sizes="(max-width: 900px) 100vw, 900px" /></h3>
<h3><b>What Is the Stress Response?</b></h3>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">The stress response, on the other hand, is associated with the sympathetic nervous system—whose activation puts us into "fight, flight or freeze" mode. When we perceive (real or imagined) danger, our body prepares to go to the battle; run as fast as we can in the opposite direction; or freeze into terrified stillness as we go into hiding. Rapid, shallow breathing often accompanies this response.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">And if the danger is real—e.g. coming face-to-face with a hungry mountain lion—this is a completely legitimate and necessary response. But oftentimes our body gets triggered into a fight-or-flight stress response by situations that do not require it or gets stuck in it after the danger has passed. And the tension associated with this can become a chronic condition. The buildup of stress can lead to anxiety and depression.</span></p>
<h3><b>What Is the Relaxation Response?</b></h3>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">The good news is that we can use deep breathing techniques to invoke the relaxation response (associated with the parasympathetic system)—and reset our system to a more kind and appropriate relaxation response.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Deep abdominal breathing can slow a racing heart, and lower or stabilize blood pressure. It also encourages full oxygen exchange—i.e. the nourishing intake of incoming oxygen and release of outgoing carbon dioxide. These are among the most powerful physical benefits of deep breathing, and the relaxation response that it supports.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">But these physical benefits are only the tip of the iceberg. What's equally impressive are the mental-emotional benefits associated with deep breathing.</span></p>
<h3><b>The Psychological Benefits of Deep Breathing</b></h3>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Physical tensions often go hand-in-hand with psychological stress. A feeling of anger may manifest as a tightly clenched jaw. A knotted stomach can be an expression of feeling "worried sick." Extreme sadness may be experienced as tightness in the chest.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">So, releasing physical tension very often brings in its wake the release of psychological tensions. When we use deep breathing to elicit the relaxation response, any stress-related mental-emotional tensions quite naturally dissolve. As chronic anger, sadness and worries are released, our psychological health improves.</span></p>
<h3><b>How to Practice Mindful Deep Breathing</b></h3>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Mindful deep breathing is a common feature of practices such as yoga, meditation, qigong, tai-chi, and progressive muscle relaxation—all of which evoke the parasympathetic relaxation response.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">The first step is to become mindfully aware of your breathing. Close your eyes and bring your attention to the sound and feeling of your breathing.</span></p>
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<li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="1"><span style="font-weight: 400;">Notice if breathing is slow or rapid.</span></li>
<li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="1"><span style="font-weight: 400;">Notice if it is deep or shallow.</span></li>
<li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="1"><span style="font-weight: 400;">Notice if it is smooth or choppy.</span></li>
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<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Just notice these things, with an attitude of spacious curiosity, without judgment or mental commentary. This is becoming mindfully aware of your breathing.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">The next step is to gently deepen the breath so that you can feel it in your belly. This is called abdominal breathing, which engages the diaphragm—the dome-shaped muscles at the bottom of the ribcage.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">If you'd like, you can lie down on a couch, bed, or carpeted floor. Lie on your back with your knees hinged and feet flat on the floor, bed, or couch. Place the palms of your hands gently on your lower belly. As you inhale, allow your belly to rise into your hands. As you exhale, feel your belly releasing back toward your spine. This is deep abdominal breathing—which can help you to relax.</span></p>
<h3><b>Get Into the Habit of Breathing Deeply</b></h3>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">To cultivate the habit of relaxed deep breathing, create a daily routine. Set aside 15-20 minutes once or twice a day, to practice mindful breathing. First thing in the morning, and then right before bed, is one great option.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Little by little, you'll begin to notice and appreciate a deepening of the relaxation response—and all the healing benefits that can come with this.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Enjoy!</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Questions or comments? Please feel free to contact me. I'd be honored to support you in the cultivation of deep breathing practice, as one way of building confidence and strength and enhancing your overall well-being.</span></p>
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	<p>Now that <a href="https://www.youtube.com/@robynmctaguebenefits9475/videos">we are completing</a> our first quarter of the year, how are you doing with the goals and projects that you started in 2019?</p>
<p>Maybe you started out strong and then your enthusiasm fizzled, or you find that your motivation is not what it was.</p>
<h3>So what is motivation?</h3>
<p>It’s the internal reason we have, which prompts us to act in certain ways and directions.  We can see the external manifestation of motivation, as it ebbs and flows in our lives. To simplify  - motivation is the flow of energy within us.</p>
<p>The old model of motivation is the carrot and the stick. Often that’s how we were brought up, <a href="https://www.alifeofchoice.ca/2023/01/31/how-to-build-self-confidence/">thinking that discipline</a> will see us through.</p>
<p>The problem is that not everyone wants or needs the same reward.</p>
<p>We are each unique in what motivates and demotivates us.</p>
<p>Times have changed and work has become more creative and less routine in many ways.</p>
<p>There has been a renaissance of self-direction and discovery over time.</p>
<p>Whether you are an entrepreneur or work for a company, there was been more autonomy created in how you do your work.</p>
<p>And as we move away from fulfilling our basic needs, we increase our ability to what Maslow called, self-actualization.</p>
<p>It’s in our nature to seek purpose.</p>
<p>When we cannot connect to that purpose, we can become indecisive, unhappy, and unable to stick to a plan.</p>
<p>Would it surprise you that 80% of people do not know what motivates them?</p>
<p>Motivations are not conscious decisions, but rather emerge from our life experiences, self‐concept, beliefs, future expectations, and personalities.</p>
<p>We do not 'invent' motivations; instead, we detect them. It is vital to go with the grain of our Motivations.</p>
<p>Motivation changes over time. This is because motivation is based on 3 factors, which interact with each other.</p>
<p>Our personality is one factor and that stays relatively fixed. Perceptions shift, however, our personalities remain.</p>
<p>The other 2 factors shift over time, and are more malleable, and thus our motivation shifts. How we view the future, our belief about future outcomes, and our present self-concept, or belief about self.</p>
<p>The 3 E’s of personal motivation can be broken down into Engagement, Enthusiasm, and Energy.</p>
<p>An example can be seen in people with depression, where all 3 are lacking.</p>
<p>To move into our next quarter, here is a suggestion for you.</p>
<h3>Review your first quarter.</h3>
<p>In both your professional and your personal life, do you have a purpose?</p>
<p>Have you clarified your values? Do they need a review, as they may have shifted over time?</p>
<p>Where are you currently with your 3 Es? This may point to areas to look at.</p>
<p>Use your values as a benchmark to see where you are in alignment, and where you aren’t.</p>
<p>Ask yourself:</p>
<p>What do you need to let go of?<br />
What do you need to do more of?</p>
<p>Give gratitude to both of these areas and release what no longer fits or serves.<br />
Continue to connect with your purpose and values as you filter your decisions and you move forward.</p>
<p>When you are motivated you have a clear sense of purpose, energy, perseverance, and resilience. Demotivation is less defined and is often not something we are conscious of; it creeps up on us.  David Langdon</p>
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